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I Can

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The no filly for tonight is…Philipians 4:13, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” YOU CAN DO ANYTHING, WITH GOD! Remember this scripture when you feel like giving up. Can’t, should never be in your vocabulary. We face obstacles that sometimes seem unbearable to tackle, to conquer or to survive. The truth is, God is with us every step of the way. Have faith in yourself, you can do it, you will make it. I believe in you and most of all God does! Don’t doubt, just do!!! 

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Love ya, Muah!
Christian
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5 ways to mend a broken heart

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Happy Monday to all my lovely readers! Today, I wanted to share 5 ways that are unfiltered, meaning not sugar-coated, but just down right real on how to mend a broken heart. These are sure ways to heal, I can attest to them. 

1st way to mend a broken heart

FASTING AND PRAYER

Matthew 17:21, “But this kind does not go out except by prayer and fasting.” The first way to really mend a broken heart is to turn everything over to God; without God nothing is possible. Prayer and fasting is a sure way to break any ties whether it being a soul tie or just an attachment that is un-natural and demonic. Usually, when you have no explanation for what you are feeling and why you are feeling that way it is a spirit; a spirit that needs to be let loose. The only way to break the barrier is to fast and pray; consistently, whole heartedly and God will deliver you and set you free, (this is a promise).

2nd way to mend a broken heart

EAT RIGHT, THINK RIGHT

1 Corinthians 6:19-20, “Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.” The second way to mend a broken heart, is to value yourself, your mind, body and soul. Watch what you put in your body. What goes in your body will definitely come out. Your body is a temple. If you are eating toxins you will think in a toxic matter; but if you are eating properly you will think properly, helping your heart to mend. Remember: food is a source of energy, watch what you eat!

3rd way to mend a broken heart

FEAR NOT

Isaiah 41-13, ” I am the LORD your God, who holds your right hand, and I tell you, Don’t be afraid, I will help you.” Do not fear being alone, some of the most powerful progression comes from being alone and standing with God. You are able to see who you truly are and who God called you to be, by standing strong and walking away from the past. The past had you held down in gloom, stand up strong so you can be the flower God called you to be and bloom.

4th way to mend a broken heart

SHARE WITH YOUR TRUE FRIEND/FRIENDS

1 Thessalonians 5:11, “Wherefore comfort yourselves together, and edify one another, even as also ye do.” A true friend is not one that just allows you to build them up, but they help encourage you as well. Friends are supposed to help one another spiritually, mentally and emotionally. If you are down they should be strong enough to help lift you back up! If they can’t help lift you up, you need to re-evaluate your friendship. You want a spiritual friend, one that uses wisdom and care when talking to you at such a critical time in your life. The key to this particular moment in your life is: truth, patience and sensitivity. A true friend will know how to balance and distribute all three.

5th way to mend a broken heart

LOVE THYSELF

Proverbs 19:8, “He that getteth wisdom loveth his own soul: he that keepeth understanding shall find good.” Remember that it’s ok to love yourself; this is a must, especially when healing. If you don’t love yourself in this process you are going to fail, and your heart WILL STAY BROKEN! Love yourself, treat yourself!!! You are more than a conqueror, you are the VICTOR! You can survive on faith and faith alone! This is your time, your season, you will win!!! Remember like the beautiful scripture above states, ...he that keeps understanding shall find good. Understand the process, and that God brought you to it and he will bring you through it! There is sunshine and a rainbow at the end of a rainy day!!!

 I hope and pray that this will guide and help heal a broken heart! You are beautiful, powerful and called for greatness.

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Christian
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Beauties and the Beasts

 

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We all know about the campaign slogan that’s making headlines everywhere. #BRINGBACKOURGIRLS, If you aren’t familiar here is a little run down of how the campaign began. “In the middle of the night on April 15, more than 300 girls were kidnapped from their school in Chibok, Nigeria. While the horrific crime—carried out by Islamist militant group Boko Haram—went largely unreported for nearly two weeks,” teenvouge.com states. The US have taken actions to try to help the Nigerian government bring back these innocent girls. The militant group Boko Haram don’t believe in Western culture and feel that girls shouldn’t be educated. Boko Harem have been attacking Northeastern Nigeria for some time now, hoping to gain power and develop a Islamic state; prompting them to the horrific kidnapping. A few girls have escaped but there are a lot of girls still being held captive. Today, my spirit led me to ask all my readers to take a moment out of their day to pray to our heavenly father asking him to please save the beauties from the beasts. These men are reckless and harmful, and just think if you were the girl’s, mother, father, brother, sister or friend, what this would do to you. Let’s just put ourselves in their shoes for a moment, and pray. Be thankful and know you’re blessed. Do not complain or nag, your life could be worse; that’s the no filly for today!!!

 Thank you in advance for your prayers, have a blessed and thankful day!!!

Go see this heart wrenching video on some of the men in the girl’s lives expressing their feelings click, BBOG

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Christian
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The mean on lean…

 

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Today, I wanted to make it a no filly Friday! I wanted to share a few unfiltered things on the popular drink lean. Lean, also know as purple drank, sizzurp, syrup, Texas tea and purple jelly, “is a slang term for a recreational drug popular in the hip hop community in the southern region United States. Lean originated in Houston, Texas.

Its main ingredient is prescription-strength cough syrup containing codeine. Cough syrup is typically mixed with ingredients such as Sprite or Mountain Dew and pieces of Jolly Rancher candy. The purplish hue of purple drink comes from dyes in the cough syrup,” (according to Solutions Recovery, Inc). There have been numerous tragic incidents leading or linked to this addicting alluring mix as (Wikipedia states),

“Big Moe, a DJ Screw protégé whose albums City of Syrup and Purple World were based on the drink and who has been described as having “rapped obsessively about the drug,” died at age 33 on October 14, 2007, after suffering a heart attack one week earlier that left him in a coma.There was speculation that purple drank may have contributed to his death.

Pimp C, widely influential Port Arthur, Texas rapper and a member of rap duo UGK, was found dead on December 4, 2007, at the Mondrian Hotel in West Hollywood, California. The Los Angeles County Coroner’s Office reported that the rapper’s death was “due to promethazine/codeine effects and other unestablished factors.” Let’s not forget the hospitalization of rapper Lil Wayne alleged to be related to lean.

The purpose of this post is to strictly tell my readers who are using this substance to be extremely cautious…It is dangerous and can also be deadly when abused.

Check out this article on the most recognizable company behind lean they are discontinuing the product. Here is a link to 7 rappers who are giving the mean lean up…!!! If you are using a mobile device, when you get to the website type 7 rappers in the search engine.

Happy Friday boo’s, be safe!!!!

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Love ya, Muah!
Christian

 

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Who’s the Judas In your life?

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Wassup my S.D.C. amigos!!! Here’s a little no filly (meaning not filtered) truth for today! We have all had a Judas in our life, unless you are a Judas you might not be able to identify with this! A person who you thought was loyal. Someone you thought you could trust but you found out you were wrong. Someone who you shared with, rode with and someone you would take the clothes right off your back for if they needed them. Here’s the no filly, God is such an awesome God that he revealed the snake before it was able to bite you. It’s not anything you did, it’s just you are too good of a person to be in the dark for any longer. The loyalty you had was too strong for the weak snake to slither over you, God wouldn’t allow you to be injected with anymore venom. You are progressing and the Judas is regressing. Can a flower thrive without water and sunlight? No, it will wither away. You were water and sunlight to the Judas! Now that you are gone he is just withering away. He can’t survive without you! Remember, you hold the key to your destiny, don’t let Judas break anymore bread with you. He lifted his heel against you once, will you let him do it twice? Watch the company you keep, you are guilty by association. Surround yourself with people who love you; people who will bring bread just not break bread, people who can handle where you’ve been and where your going! I love you from the bottom of my heart and that’s the no filly for tell it like it is Tuesday!

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Christian
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The Good Wives Guide (7 tips)

 

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Well it’s Sunday my love bugs and today I thought I’d give a little (no filly) meaning not filtered guide on how to be a good wife!!! I’ll keep it short, simple, sassy and fun! 

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Tip 1:

Now, some of you may not be the spoiling type, you might like to be spoiled! The truth is I’m a strong believer in you reap what you sow. I believe if your man wants to be catered to, cater to him. If he wants breakfast in bed (and he’s a good man) I feel you should give him breakfast in bed. I’m not saying be a slave to his every need but I believe if you cater to him he will cater to you. A good wife takes time to make her husband feel special.

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Tip 2:

Cooking, cleaning and putting icky things near your mouth from time to time is a must (if you have a man who requires these things.) If you won’t do it another woman will. Sometimes, it’s those things you don’t want to do that will keep your man on his toes. Be creative, make these things fun! You have to live in your house, so clean up! You have to eat, so cook! You want to be fulfilled, so fulfill him!

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Tip 3:

Don’t be lazy! A man loves a motivated woman! Even for some of us that stay at home you should have goals that you set a timeline for accomplishing! Let your man see you being superwoman! Yes you can be a go getter and the one that takes care of the home! You can do it! You are more than a conqueror!!!

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Tip 4:

With all the overwhelming things that life can bring, don’t forget to have fun!!! Treat your marriage as if you are dating! It’s nothing wrong with this, you want a successful marriage right? Remember why you married that man in the first place! Make him remember why he married you. Don’t be boring, spruce it up!!!! Do adventurous things together, every relationship is different! What ever is fun to you and your husband do it!

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Tip 5:

I know some of us like to have a drink here and now! Please don’t be a lush, your husband shouldn’t walk in and see you slumped over the couch and the baby is in the next room crying because you’ve had one too many glasses of wine. Keep it classy, it’s ok in moderation! Moms and wives sometimes need a little something to help them relax and wind down!

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Tip 6:

I know this next tip is hard! But please try your very best not be a NAG!!! Pray consistently that God teaches you when and how to hold your tongue! Sometimes there will be things that have to be said! Use wisdom and God’s guidance when to.

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Tip 7:

Be confident a man looooooves a confident woman, but be humble! Being humble is the key to being blessed. You can know you are blessed but never boast! NO, relationship is perfect!!! They all take work, time and patience in order to be successful and strong!!

I hope this quick guide will help us all enhance our relationships! I am learning new things everyday!!!

NOTE: The NO FILLY section is strictly for those that can hang (SO LEAVE THE JUDGING AT THE S.D.C. DOOR) if you can’t stand the heat get out the kitchen! Those of you that can stand the heat stay in there and cook for your man!!! 

 

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Christian
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Bananas at Board Room!

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Here’s the No Filly! Meaning (not filtered) scoop for today. I had the most unbelievable, mind-blowing, outer life experience going to Board Room last night! I mean the line was super long and people were out there like they were giving out FEMA, when in all actuality there was nothing free! There was a cover charge and then of course for all the bottle poppers that was extra. Now, bare with me, this is coming from someone who hasn’t been out on the scene in approximately 4 years. Due to getting married, losing friends and becoming a mother. So this was super surreal…When I got in I felt like I was in Vegas, like I was a foreigner in my own home town! I mean for anyone who really wants to know what TURNING UP looks like needs to take a trip to Board Room. People were standing on tables, popping bottles and girls were dancing in glass boxes like live barbies; EVERYBODY had turned into their alter ego after that one sip of the devil’s juice!! Let me just say, things were bananas! Don’t get me wrong, I completely understand we are still young and especially for those who haven’t settled down and even for some who have, this is the life! NO FILLY, I love you and want everyone who reads this post and TURNS UP to be careful and cautious when they go in a environment like that. It’s people lurking and demons are definitely real!

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Love ya, Muah!
Christian